Avoiding Children – Test (Version for a Woman)

The purpose of the proposed test is to bring to light destructive programs and beliefs that have led to the present state. The test is a typical psychological assessment. In a quiet moment, take a deep breath and write down the FIRST answer that comes to mind after reading each question. Do not evaluate the logic of your answers while writing them down. That will be done later. The information obtained will be helpful in further creations.

Children would limit my life through ………….. ,…………..

I am afraid of having children because …………..

Children would take away my freedom consisting of ………….., because ……….

Children would make it more difficult for me to achieve my plans through ………….., because ……….

I was afraid of being responsible for a child because …………..

I was afraid of becoming a mother because …………..

I was afraid of pregnancy and childbirth because of ………….., because ……….

I was afraid of changes in my own body through …………..

What I was truly lacking in relation to children was ………….., because ……….

I was afraid of losing my health because of …………..

I was afraid of losing my attractiveness through …………..

What I really wanted to keep only for myself was …………..

I was afraid of losing my independence through ………….., because ……….

I was afraid that a child would take away my opportunity to …………..

I did not want to be like my own mother because …………..

I did not want to repeat the patterns from my family home because …………..

Children were associated in my mind with ………….. and with ………….., because ……….

Children’s crying aroused ………….. in me because ……….

Children’s noise was associated in my mind with ………….., because ……….

What I feared most in a child was ………….., because ……….

What annoyed me most about children was ………….., because ……….

I believed that children interfered with ………….., because ……….

I believed that life without children gave me ………….., because ……….

The real reason I avoided children was …………..

The real reason I was afraid of becoming a mother was …………..

Opublikowano: 25/06/2026
Autor: Sławomir Majda
Kateogrie: A woman and a man in mutual relations

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