Decision-Making by Us – Intentions for Prayerful Reflection

Technical matters concerning the idea and sentence construction when working with intentions.

Article “800 Intentions for Cleansing” Link
“Building Extensive Intentions and Prayers. Skype Conversation About the Technique” Link
“One-Sentence Structure for Intentions” Link

The word (–not) added while working with intentions to a given word means that it is worth mentioning it as an opposite or even independently finding and speaking aloud any synonyms that come to mind together with their opposites.

e.g. — being poor, ill — it is good to also say it together with its opposite

–being poor, ill, –not being poor, ill–

This allows moving a given pattern as broadly as possible immediately in different aspects, also in its opposite. It is also worth knowing that Souls often think, claim that they do not have such opposite patterns e.g. that they are not idol worshippers as in a given case (given word).

Another example:

The soul of a woman denies ever having been a bad mother. Therefore adding here the word of negation – not being a bad mother – may allow her to understand the state she is in.

Being a bad mother, –not being a bad mother–

“–No way, never in my life! Those are not my patterns. What I do is my private matter.” [–Very often says or thinks the soul about itself.]

Decision-Making by Us – Intentions for Prayerful Reflection

Author: Małgorzata Perła

1. Our/others’ possession of skills in decision-making, actions consisting among others in choosing from many possible solutions including among others selection and rejection of proper alternatives, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
2. Our/others’ being throughout our/others’ entire life constantly forced among others to make many decisions which have diverse influence upon our/others’ life, existence, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
3. Our/others’ learning and acquiring numerous cognitive strategies intended to support and improve making choices and decisions, as well as sometimes leading to incorrect conclusions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences and effects of this.
4. The existence between us/others of significant differences in the area of decision-making, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
5. Our/others’ skill and ability to make quick and accurate choices, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
6. Our/others’ problems resulting from lack of decisiveness and ability in making quick and accurate choices and decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
7. Our/others’ fear, worries, anxieties regarding making quick and accurate life decisions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
8. Our/others’ wondering about the existence of strategies and frameworks that would help among others us/others make decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
9. Our/others’ searching for ways and methods to eliminate certain mistakes and errors among others in making our/others’ accurate decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
10. Our/others’ possession and mastery of the ability among others to make decisions quickly and efficiently, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

11. Our/others’ understanding and realization in ourselves/others that making quick decisions is very useful, convenient, good, reasonable, necessary, destructive in life, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
12. Our/others’ awareness that in some professions making quick decisions is outright required and necessary and among others may save life and existence of LIBT RZ, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
13. Our/others’ making quick and correct choices in professions among others as medical workers including doctors and nurses, as well as politicians, security workers including police officers, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
14. Our/others’ performing professions where one may, can, allow oneself among others mistakes, delay, hesitation, reflection, lack of decisiveness, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
15. Our/others’ responsibility and awareness that our/others’ decisions influence life and existence of LIBT RZ, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
16. Our/others’ being guided by cognitive processes based upon decision-making relying among others on inference, meaning reasoning in which conclusions are drawn by referring among others to previous knowledge and available data, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
17. Our/others’ use of reasoning strategies presenting theory based upon the model of “rational choice,” and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

According to this theory in the process of decision-making:

18. Our/others’ making decisions in stages, including gathering facts and information, considering advantages and disadvantages, preparing for action, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
19. The arising and occurring in our/others’ mind at the moment of making decisions and choices among others of three cognitive processes always following one another in the same order, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
20. Our/others’ analyzing all alternatives and then making among others a balance considering all advantages and disadvantages of our/others’ decisions carried by each possibility among others in order to choose the solution that is most beneficial for us/others, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
21. Our/others’ sometimes, occasionally, periodically, often making mistakes among others while making our/others’ decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
22. Our/others’ making decisions according to among others a proposed strategy.
23. Our/others’ making mistakes and errors in making our/others’ decisions despite among others planning strategies and plans, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
24. Our/others’ making choices dependent upon many factors among others situational, personality-related, environmental, national, governmental, global and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
25. Our/others’ making decisions of a subjective nature causing susceptibility to various cognitive distortions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
26. Our/others’ various ways and possibilities of understanding among others a given problem, situation, or circumstance which may among others lead us/others to make different choices and decisions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
27. Our/others’ “framing” of a decision problem, meaning defining it among others based upon various factors and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
28. Our/others’ “framings” which are stable and subordinated to our/others’ current needs and requirements and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
29. Our/others’ decision-making strategies that may change among others in different circumstances and situations, where an appropriate framing of a problem determines among others our/others’ choices and decisions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
30. Our/others’ analyzing all positive aspects of a given decision among others based upon a goal previously defined by us/others and choosing that/another solution that in a given situation is most beneficial and most appropriate, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
31. Our/others’ “rational choice,” which does not entirely work among others when all alternatives available to us present among others the same number of advantages, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
32. Our/others’ making such decisions that guarantee or provide us/others with the smallest losses possible, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
33. Our/others’ making, choosing, deciding upon the so-called “lesser evil,” and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
34. Our/others’ satisfaction, anger, disappointment, discouragement because of among others mistakes, errors, rapid action, reaction, conduct, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
35. Our/others’ torment, pain, guilt caused among others by mistakes, wrongly made decisions, reactions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
36. Our/others’ guilt and torment caused by wrongly or too quickly made decisions among others as doctors, firefighters, police officers, military personnel, politicians, also ourselves/others, where because of this among others LIBT RZ suffered or lost life in all possible ways known to You God, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
37. Our/others’ being in situations where we have only two possibilities to choose from and would rather avoid both, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
38. Our/others’ placing ourselves/others in situations requiring making any decision whatsoever, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
39. Our/others’ exerting pressure upon ourselves/others in order to obtain or make a particular decision, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
40. Our/others’ avoiding and striving in decision-making first among others to choose limiting costs, expenses, and losses both material, physical and psychological ours/others’, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

41. Our/others’ making decisions and choices among others under the influence of strong emotions, pressure, fear, tension, stress, and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
42. Our/others’ making decisions under time pressure, haste, urgency, and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
43. Our/others’ delaying decisions, postponing choices, avoiding making decisions, waiting too long, and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
44. Our/others’ tendency to seek certainty before taking action and making decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
45. Our/others’ inability to accept uncertainty connected with decisions, choices, risks and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
46. Our/others’ striving for perfection in making decisions, choices, evaluations and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
47. Our/others’ tendency to overanalyze situations before making decisions and thereby delaying action and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
48. Our/others’ making decisions based mainly upon emotions and feelings without taking broader circumstances into account, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
49. Our/others’ making decisions based exclusively upon logic while omitting intuition, emotions, sensitivity, experience and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
50. Our/others’ tendency to seek confirmation of already accepted opinions and beliefs while making decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
51. Our/others’ fear of making mistakes and thereby refraining from action, decisions and choices, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
52. Our/others’ tendency to transfer responsibility for our/others’ decisions onto other people, authorities, groups, systems, institutions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
53. Our/others’ making decisions in accordance with pressure from environment, family, social groups, trends, authorities and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
54. Our/others’ making decisions under the influence of stereotypes, habits, automatisms and previously learned behavioral patterns, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
55. Our/others’ tendency to evaluate our/others’ decisions solely through outcomes while omitting intentions, circumstances and limitations existing at the moment of choice, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
56. Our/others’ regretting decisions already made and repeatedly returning mentally to choices already taken, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
57. Our/others’ excessive attachment to decisions already made despite visible losses, mistakes or harmful consequences and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
58. Our/others’ tendency to compare our/others’ decisions with decisions of others and evaluating ourselves through that prism, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
59. Our/others’ fear of criticism, rejection, ridicule or judgment by others because of our/others’ decisions and choices, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
60. Our/others’ ability and inability to accept consequences resulting from our/others’ own decisions and choices, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
61. Our/others’ making decisions in accordance with truth, honesty, responsibility and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
62. Our/others’ making decisions contrary to conscience, values, truth and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
63. Our/others’ understanding and acceptance that every decision carries consequences both visible and invisible, immediate and delayed, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
64. Our/others’ understanding and acceptance that making decisions belongs to everyday life and that avoiding decisions is also a form of decision-making, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
65. Our/others’ learning wise decision-making through life experience, mistakes, reflection and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

66. Our/others’ learning through mistakes, failures, unsuccessful decisions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
67. Our/others’ understanding and acceptance that not every decision may turn out to be correct, beneficial or proper despite our/others’ best intentions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
68. Our/others’ tendency to avoid responsibility for consequences resulting from our/others’ decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
69. Our/others’ ability and inability to draw conclusions from past decisions, experiences, failures and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
70. Our/others’ tendency resulting from social stereotypes and attribution errors among others to evaluate our/others’ personality, behavior and moods as more variable and less predictable than those of others and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
71. Our/others’ tendency to assign success to our/others’ abilities while assigning failures to external factors and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
72. Our/others’ tendency to assign responsibility for failures mainly to ourselves/others while minimizing broader conditions and circumstances and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
73. Our/others’ tendency to perceive ourselves/others as more rational, wiser and making better decisions than others and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
74. Our/others’ tendency toward excessive certainty regarding correctness of our/others’ choices and decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
75. Our/others’ making decisions under the influence of habits, routine, learned automatisms and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
76. Our/others’ repeating the same mistakes despite previous negative consequences and experiences and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
77. Our/others’ difficulty changing previously accepted convictions, attitudes, strategies and ways of acting despite evidence indicating the need for change, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
78. Our/others’ tendency to seek immediate relief, benefit, gratification or gain while making decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
79. Our/others’ choosing short-term benefits at the expense of long-term values, consequences and well-being, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
80. Our/others’ making decisions concerning finances, work, health, relationships and everyday life, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
81. Our/others’ ability and inability to remain calm while making important life decisions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
82. Our/others’ excessive emotional involvement in decisions resulting in loss of distance, perspective and objectivity, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
83. Our/others’ tendency to surrender decision-making to chance, coincidence, fate or external influences and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

Learned Helplessness

84. Our/others’ awareness, belief, experiencing, promoting so-called learned helplessness consisting in remaining in a learned condition created by exposure to harmful, unpleasant situations from which there is no escape or which cannot be avoided and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
85. Our/others’ frequent and lasting experiencing of harmful, unpleasant, painful, difficult situations from which there is no escape or which cannot be avoided and among others being helpless in relation to them and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
86. Our/others’ belief that actions taken by ourselves/others do not influence reality, outcomes, consequences or life circumstances and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
87. Our/others’ resignation from attempts, efforts and actions because of previous failures, defeats and disappointments and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
88. Our/others’ lack of faith in effectiveness of our/others’ own actions, choices and decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
89. Our/others’ loss of motivation to act because of previous difficult experiences and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
90. Our/others’ feeling powerless, discouraged, resigned and lacking influence upon our/others’ own lives and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
91. Our/others’ tendency toward passivity despite existence of opportunities, solutions and possibilities for change and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
92. Our/others’ difficulty recognizing situations in which influence, agency and possibilities of action actually exist and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
93. Our/others’ giving up too quickly despite possibility of achieving improvement, change or success and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
94. Our/others’ losing hope concerning improvement of life circumstances and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
95. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that if we have two tasks to solve, one easy and one difficult, if we begin with the easy one we may also solve the difficult one, whereas if we begin with the difficult one it may happen that we solve neither the difficult nor the easy one, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

96. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that small successes increase motivation, strengthen belief in effectiveness and facilitate undertaking further actions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
97. Our/others’ tendency to resign from action because of previous failures, disappointments and unpleasant experiences and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
98. Our/others’ remaining in patterns of passivity, withdrawal, resignation and helplessness and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
99. Our/others’ tendency toward lowering aspirations, expectations and life goals because of experienced failures and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
100. Our/others’ lack of faith in our/others’ own effectiveness, abilities and capacity to influence life situations and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
101. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that helplessness may concern many areas of life including work, learning, health, relationships and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
102. Our/others’ tendency toward excessive dependence upon others in decision-making and acting because of fear of failure and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
103. Our/others’ conviction that regardless of actions undertaken nothing can be changed and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
104. Our/others’ remaining in difficult situations despite existence of possibilities for change because of conviction regarding lack of influence and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
105. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that for learned helplessness what matters is not so much actual control over reinforcement but rather conviction regarding possessing or not possessing such control and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
106. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that the way we interpret events influences effectiveness, motivation and capacity for action and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
107. Our/others’ tendency to interpret failures as permanent, personal and affecting all areas of life and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
108. Our/others’ tendency to interpret successes as accidental, temporary or unrelated to our/others’ own influence and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
109. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that helplessness may intensify feelings of sadness, discouragement, hopelessness and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
110. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that repeated difficult experiences without possibility of influence may weaken motivation and initiative and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
111. Our/others’ tendency toward losing persistence in undertaking tasks requiring effort, patience and engagement and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
112. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that there are five variants of alienation whose diversity proceeds at the level of causes and consequences and among these helplessness is evoked by feeling lack of control over life and events important for life in situations of losing or failing to establish bonds with a broader social context and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
113. Our/others’ feeling separation, alienation, exclusion and lack of belonging and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
114. Our/others’ conviction that our/others’ own efforts have no meaning, purpose or effectiveness and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
115. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that support, relationships and social bonds may strengthen sense of agency and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
116. Our/others’ tendency to withdraw from life challenges because of previous difficult experiences and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
117. Our/others’ awareness, belief and experiencing that coexistence of strong negative emotions, low controllability of situation, presence of difficult tasks causing emotional difficulties and preventing achievement of goals characterizes syndrome of alienating situations, and its main consequence is growing sense of helplessness and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

118. Our/others’ drawing from our/others’ decisions and life actions among others inspiration, joy, contentment, satisfaction, happiness, benefits, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
119. Our/others’ feeling fulfilled, content, satisfied among others under the influence of making appropriate, proper decisions and actions by ourselves/others, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
120. Our/others’ possessing, experiencing fears, anxieties concerning life and making our/others’ decisions and actions within it, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
121. Our/others’ ability to forget and forgive ourselves/others for mistakes made among others in the past, present, wrong or accurate decisions and actions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
122. Our/others’ fears, certainty, criticism, being ridiculed, pointed out, punished among others for accurate, proper life decisions and actions and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
123. Our/others’ fear, anxiety, concern about repeating and reproducing among others our/others’ incorrect decisions and actions, including marital, family, generational, political, professional and beyond, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

124. Our/others’ seeking reasons, confirmations among others for rationally making our/others’ decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
125. Our/others’ “dwelling on,” “ruminating,” repeatedly analyzing in every possible way the wrong or proper decisions made by ourselves/others, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
126. Our/others’ criticizing, complaining, lamenting about ourselves/others for making among others proper decisions, actions, resolutions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
127. Our/others’ verifying and correcting errors and mistakes arising among others as a result of proper and right decisions and actions taken by ourselves/others, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
128. Our/others’ making many choices, decisions and actions in everyday life influencing our/others’ future and life, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
129. Our/others’ repairing, correcting and removing the consequences of our/others’ mistaken decisions and actions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
130. Our/others’ consciously made decisions and actions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
131. Our/others’ learning from our/others’ mistaken and proper decisions and actions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
132. Our/others’ turning to God and asking God for support and guidance among others while making our/others’ decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
133. Our/others’ being alert, sober, intoxicated, conscious of decisions and actions made by ourselves/others, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
134. Our/others’ following among others trends and fashions because “everyone does it,” following like lemmings, following among others trances, hypnosis, listening to so-called “specialists,” “authorities,” leaders and commanders, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
135. Our/others’ surrendering and adapting our/others’ decision-making to someone else’s requirements, expectations, promises, etc., and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
136. Our/others’ turning to God and asking God for support and guidance among others while making our/others’ decisions, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.
137. Our/others’ making decisions according to the will of God the Creator, and our/others’ experiencing all consequences of this.

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• s_majda writes:
22/04/2018 at 22:45 (Edit)

1. Faith and conviction that among others “lack of a decision is the worst decision.”
2. Acceptance that every decision has consequences.
3. Manifesting among others fear, concern, anxiety about making decisions.
4. Manifesting among others ease and freedom in making decisions.
5. Counting on someone else taking responsibility for our decisions and their consequences.
6. (Not) shifting responsibility for our decisions and their consequences onto others.
7. Conviction (not), belief (not), that the act of making decisions defines a human person and expresses human dignity.
8. Making (not) among others good (not), bad (not), beneficial (not), accurate (not), harmful (not), innocent decisions.
9. Avoiding (not) among others making decisions.
10. Postponing (not) making decisions among others into infinity.
11. Avoiding action among others by leaving matters to continue along their current course.
12. Not doing today what we can do tomorrow.
13. Postponing (not) among others tasks, actions and decisions until later.
14. Avoiding decision-making by trying, as much as possible, to cast off this burden and transfer responsibility for choice onto someone else.
15. Being (not) among others a decisive being (not).
16. Attracting (not) among others beings which according to us are to help us make decisions, or even make decisions for us.
17. Experiencing (not), manifesting (not) among others fear of commitment, fear of defining oneself, fear of mistakes, fear of showing one’s face, fear of acting, fear of choosing, fear of being oneself, fear that paralyzes soul and body.
18. Belief (not), knowledge (not) that fear blinds channels of discernment, immobilizes the mechanism of decision-making; that one who fears does not make good decisions, cannot choose well; that under fear, one’s vision, heart rhythm and balance cease being what they should be; the environment becomes disturbed and choice is wasted.
19. Possessing (not), manifesting (not) among others courage when making good choices.
20. Possessing (not), manifesting (not) among others courage to engage in something, courage to make mistakes, courage to choose, courage to live.
21. Fulfilling (not) the plan of God, Giver of Life, among others through making choices, possessing the ability to choose, possessing courage.
22. Fear paralyzes the soul. Conversely, courage of choice in a decisive and clear way is what marks a person as such and grants dignity and personality. There is no better school of becoming human than the ability to choose.

23. Possessing and expressing among others motivation and desire for everything to go well.
24. Blaming others for our mistakes and for our wrongly made decisions.
25. Experiencing among others the benefits that making decisions gives us.
26. Using our abilities, appreciating everything that we have, enlivening our whole personality, which was created among others to learn, desire and decide.
27. Developing among others our personality, decision-making abilities and courage through among others confronting difficulties, dilemmas, helplessness and responsibility.
28. Justifying our mistakes.
29. Running away under the influence of defeats.
30. Minimizing mistakes and failures.
31. Renouncing responsibility among others by leaving decisions to circumstances.
32. Considering and analyzing among others reasons for and reasons against.
33. Treating among others failure as a rescue from making decisions.
34. Experiencing among others joy and relief because others made decisions for us.
35. Accepting and believing that choosing one thing means giving up another; choosing one means leaving another; that the essence of choice lies precisely in leaving something behind.
36. Experiencing among others the pain of abandoning an option we did not choose.
37. Delaying among others saying goodbye to an option we did not choose.
38. Accepting that by choosing something we resign from something else.
39. Expressing among others desires, intentions and needs to possess among others everything, nothing.
40. Hesitating between options and possibilities until the last moment.
41. Experiencing all consequences (including karmic and health-related) of possessing and experiencing among others ease, difficulty, problems, resistance and lightness in among others making decisions.
42. Belief and conviction that: “I can never make up my mind,” “I myself do not know what I want,” “I lack the strength to decide,” “I do not know what I should do,” “They are probably laughing at me because I cannot decide,” and beyond.
43. Experiencing feelings of inability to cope with emotions, feeling overwhelmed in life and difficulties in relationships with other people.
44. Trusting ourselves, our feelings and our intuition.
45. Experiencing that often our first impression, first “flash” connected with a topic is right and that in the end, when the decision has already been made, we realize that in truth we knew from the very beginning that this is what we would do, and that only through further detailed analysis of pros and cons do we lose contact with our inner wisdom.
46. Understanding in what direction my feelings and impressions related to the matter being considered are leading me.
47. Understanding what is the essence of our doubts and answering ourselves the question of what is most important.
48. After making a decision, continuing to dwell on it.
49. Conviction that reconsidering things again will only consume our energy and deprive us of joy in life, and recognizing the decision-making process as complete, enjoying its effects and attending to other matters.
50. Conviction and belief that one sign of healthy self-worth is ease and confidence in making decisions, and that low self-worth strongly influences difficulties connected with this, and consequently willingness to take responsibility for oneself.
51. Expressing fears that we may make a mistake and therefore preferring not to make any decisions.
52. Fearing that we may make a bad decision so much that we prefer not to make any decisions.
53. Forgiving everyone who contributed to our fear of making mistakes.
54. Forgiving ourselves for making mistakes and making wrong choices.

Written down by: Łukasz Szczęk

Opublikowano: 24/05/2026
Autor: Sławomir Majda
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