Love – Psychological Test

Author: Małgorzata Krata

The test proposed below is intended to bring to the surface the programs and beliefs that have shaped our present understanding of love. It may help identify the core of our underlying convictions.

This is a typical psychological assessment. Write down the FIRST answer that comes to mind after reading each question.

Love is, to me, ________________________________, but love is definitely not ________________________________.

When I say the word Love, I mean ________________________________, and when I think that I am giving love, what I am actually giving is ________________________________. When I act with love, I do ________________________________.

I have several negative associations connected with love, including:

I know several gods or beings who give me love, including ________________________________. I myself give love to such figures/deities, Goa’ulds, saints, divine mothers, commanders as:

The benefits I receive from being loved by them are:

There are certain figures whom I cannot love, such as ________________________________, because ________________________________. Likewise, they would never love me, including ________________________________.

There were several people or beings from whom I never received love, such as ________________________________. The one I remember most and still cannot forgive is ________________________________.

I am not very open to giving love to everyone I meet because ________________________________.

If I gave love to all my fellow human beings, then ________________________________ would happen.

I have various safeguards and strategies that prevent me from acting too much from love or from receiving love. These include ________________________________. They were recommended to me by ________________________________.

Love itself reminds me most of ________________________________.

I have no love for myself because ________________________________. I was told this by ________________________________. I also have no love for God because ________________________________. Likewise, I lack love for other beings, especially ________________________________.

Love is most closely associated in my mind with the following patterns and blockages:

and with the following actions:

I know several synonyms for love, including:

People and beings who possess love are, in my opinion, also ________________________________. When they express love, they also give ________________________________. When I give love, I also give others ________________________________.

Only ________________________________ loves me unconditionally.

I love only ________________________________ unconditionally.

______________________________ loves me conditionally.

The conditions for receiving that love are:

I also set conditions for giving love to others. These conditions are:

In order to receive love from others, I must ________________________________.

In order to receive love from God, I must ________________________________.

For me to give love to others, they must ________________________________.

God should ________________________________.

I cannot be loved because ________________________________.

I also know that God does not love me because ________________________________.

Other people do not love me because ________________________________.

When love manifests in my life, then ________________________________ happens.

I lose because of it in the following way:

However, I also gain the following from the love that manifests in my life:

I have a way of allowing love to flow from my heart, namely:

I also have a way of speaking to others with love:

I also know how to act with love, and I do so by means of the following approach:

The greatest lack of love in my body, relationships, or areas of life is in:

But above all else, I love:

I will never give up my love for ________________________________.

It is also difficult for me to give up one thing that I love with all my heart, namely:

More than God, I love ________________________________.

More than myself, I love ________________________________.

Because of love, I have done several foolish things, such as:

I have also gotten myself into serious trouble, including:

To this day, I continue to suffer the negative consequences of my love for:

There is no room in my heart for pure love because ________________________________.

Instead, my heart is mostly filled with:

Rather than love, I would prefer to receive from God:

And from other people:

Instead of love, I would rather give God:

And give other people:

Love is overrated because ________________________________.

Yet I am still waiting for love from ________________________________.

However, I will never accept love from ________________________________.

Opublikowano: 01/07/2026
Autor: Sławomir Majda
Kateogrie: Heart Energy and Love.

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